Not a dating app. An exclusive, application-only singles club bringing exceptional people together through unforgettable events, extraordinary experiences, and genuine face-to-face connections.
A private community of exceptional singles who enjoy an exciting social life, shared experiences, and genuine connections—in real life.
DISCOVER THE EXPERIENCE →Application-only. A deliberately limited community of interesting, successful singles.
Cocktails, dinners, wellness, games, dance lessons, travel and Signature Events designed to bring people together.
See the same members at multiple events, build real connections, and let chemistry develop naturally.
Private gatherings, distinctive venues, and memorable experiences you won't find on dating apps.
Real connection deserves more than a screen. The numbers help explain why we're building something different.
of women who used online dating in the past year say they've felt overwhelmed by the number of messages they received at least sometimes.
Pew Research Center, 2023 ↗of men who used online dating in the past year say they've felt insecure about the number of messages they received being too few, at least sometimes.
Pew Research Center, 2023 ↗Across seven research samples, 68% of romantic relationships began as friendships. Cashmere creates more opportunities to see familiar faces and get to know people in person.
Stinson et al., 2021 ↗The kind of nights you wish you were invited to. Immersive evenings, beautiful settings, and a room full of people worth getting to know.
One night. Another era.
Dress sharp. Play late.
An evening made
for royalty.
An evening with a little
more brilliance.
From cocktail mixers and intimate dinners to poolside gatherings, unforgettable Signature Events, and new adventures—Cashmere brings people together through experiences worth sharing and friendships worth building.
SOCIALEasy introductions. Great rooms. Better conversations.
Cocktail Mixers · Rooftop Socials · Happy Hours · Wine Socials · Lounge Nights · Hosted Introductions
SIGNATUREThe nights everyone talks about afterward.
Masquerade · Casino Royale · Diamonds After Dark · Gatsby Affair · Kings & Queens
DINEGood food has a way of bringing people together.
Dinner Club · Brunches · Chef Dinners · Tasting Menus · Food Tastings · Cooking Classes · Pasta Making
GATHERThe kind of gatherings that start feeling like your social circle.
Pool Parties · House Socials · Cookouts · BBQs · Backyard Gatherings · Daytime Socials · Themed House Parties
NIGHTSome nights are meant to run a little later.
Karaoke Nights · Live Music · Dancing · Nightclub Evenings
PLAYA little competition makes meeting people considerably easier.
Adult Game Nights · Poker · Trivia · Board & Card Games · Party Games · Team Challenges · Game-Show Nights
DANCELearn something new—with plenty of reasons to change partners.
Salsa · Bachata · Country Swing · Ballroom · Partner-Rotation Dance Lessons · Interactive Social Classes
MOVEConnect outside the usual nightlife setting.
Yoga · Group Fitness · Wellness Classes · Group Walks
ADVENTUREGet moving. Get competitive. Get out and do something.
Pickleball · Bowling · Golf & Topgolf · Volleyball · Billiards · Recreational Competitions · Hiking · Horseback Riding · Outdoor Excursions · Day Trips · Seasonal Adventures
CREATEMake something—and maybe make a connection while you're at it.
Painting · Pottery · Creative Workshops
GIVEConnections can make a difference, too.
Animal Shelter Volunteering · Pet-Care Days · Charitable Activities
WATCHBig nights are better with a crowd.
UFC & Fight Nights · Super Bowl · Major Sporting Events
TRAVELSome Cashmere experiences go well beyond Tucson.
Cashmere Cruises · Destination Getaways · International Trips · Group Tours · Resort Experiences · Destination Adventures
CELEBRATEThere is always something worth celebrating.
Halloween · Holiday Parties · New Year's · Valentine's Experiences · Summer Events · Seasonal Celebrations
Cashmere's calendar changes throughout the year. Event types, categories and frequency rotate based on season, availability and member interest. Examples shown represent experiences Cashmere may offer and are not guaranteed in any particular month.
Members can vote for the experiences they'd like to see more of and share ideas directly with the Cashmere team—helping us build a calendar around what our community actually wants.
A great social circle doesn't happen by accident.
Cashmere brings together a deliberately limited community of distinctive singles. We value character, confidence, accomplishments, and the way people treat others—because who you are matters as much as what you've achieved.
Apply for Cashmere →Each chapter has a defined membership capacity. Every prospective member applies, and acceptance is never guaranteed.
Members complete identity verification as part of admission, helping maintain an authentic, accountable community.
Respect and consideration are expected of every member. Harassment, intimidation, and inappropriate behavior can result in removal.
The Cashmere Member Collection is an exclusive collection of jewelry and thoughtfully selected gifts, created for our members to wear, enjoy, and remember their experiences.
Active members receive 4–6 complimentary pieces throughout the year, with a guaranteed minimum of four.
The collection features timeless Cashmere Signature Collection designs alongside limited Signature Event Editions inspired by the experiences themselves.
Every collection has a beginning. The Cashmere Signature Collection begins with No. 001. Over time, each piece becomes part of something larger—your own Cashmere Member Collection.
The Cashmere Signature Bracelet is a defining piece of the collection. Available in gold and silver, with styles ranging from understated elegance to a bolder statement. Beautiful on its own. Meaningful to those who recognize it.
Created exclusively for Cashmere members.
Reserved for eligible active members.
A subtle connection between members who recognize the Cashmere signature.
To everyone else, it's a beautiful piece.
To another member, it means something.
Member Collection pieces vary throughout the year. Images shown represent the Cashmere collection aesthetic and do not identify or promise a specific numbered release. The numbered Cashmere Signature Collection begins with No. 001. Select Signature Events may also introduce limited Event Editions inspired by the evening itself.
Being single shouldn't mean putting the world on hold. From international getaways at beautiful resorts to cruises exploring destinations around the world, Cashmere brings members together for extraordinary travel experiences, new friendships and unforgettable memories.
Discover international destinations, beautiful resorts, and memorable group adventures alongside fellow Cashmere members.
EXPLORE DESTINATIONS →Sail to incredible destinations, discover exciting ports, and enjoy dinners, nightlife, and unforgettable experiences together.
EXPLORE CRUISES →Cashmere membership is built around real introductions, extraordinary experiences and a social circle that becomes more familiar every time you show up. Tucson's earliest members also secure our Founding Member pricing.
Lock in our Founding Member rate and keep it as long as you remain an active member. Maintain continuous membership with included Pause & Resume or Membership Hold options and your rate stays protected.
Every active membership includes eligibility for Cashmere's exclusive Member Collection—signature jewelry, collectible pieces, and special event gifts.
Access to member events, including mixers, dinners, activities and more. Ticketed events sold separately.
Optional international destinations and cruises, exclusively for members. Travel costs not included in membership dues.
Need a break? Preserve your membership and protected Founding Member rate with Membership Hold, available after any included complimentary protection is exhausted. You can pause and resume your membership when eligible.
Maintain continuous membership—active, using included Pause & Resume, or on Membership Hold—and your established member pricing remains protected even if Cashmere pricing changes later.
Pause & Resume is a complimentary benefit included with qualifying plans. Membership Hold is the $14.99/month option for preserving your membership and protected rate. Cancellation ends your membership and protected rate; returning later requires reapplication.
Everything important, side by side. No surprises.
| Membership | Monthly | 3 Months | 6 Months Preferred | Annual |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| Price | $99/mo | $279 | $529 | $949 |
| Effective monthly | $99 | $93 | ≈ $88.17 | ≈ $79.08 |
| Member Collection eligibility | Included | Included | Included | Included |
| Complimentary Pause & Resume | — | — | 3 months | 12 months |
| Membership Hold | $14.99/mo | $14.99/mo | $14.99/mo after included Pause | $14.99/mo after included Pause |
| Exclusive plan gift | — | — | Exclusive 6-Month Signature Piece | Exclusive Annual Signature Piece |
| Protected member pricing | Yes | Yes | Yes | Yes |
| Automatic renewal | Monthly | Every 3 months | Every 6 months | Annually |
Included with qualifying 6-Month and Annual memberships. Take a break for the included period at no additional cost while preserving your Cashmere membership, your place in the club and your protected member rate. Resume without reapplying.
Available for $14.99/month when complimentary Pause & Resume isn't included or has been exhausted. Hold preserves your membership, your place and your protected member rate while you're away.
If you cancel, your membership ends. Returning requires a new application and completion of the full Cashmere admissions process just like any other applicant. Readmission is not guaranteed. If accepted again, a $99 returning-member fee applies along with the membership pricing available at that time.
Memberships automatically renew on their existing term unless changed before renewal. Once a renewal processes, that membership term is committed. Membership provides access to the Cashmere community and event calendar; some events, including Signature Events, may be separately ticketed. Member Collection pickup is offered at designated events, including Signature Events.
Find answers to common questions about Cashmere membership, events, the Member Collection and the application process.
Dating apps primarily introduce profiles. Cashmere is designed to introduce people through shared experiences, recurring gatherings, and natural face-to-face conversation. It's a different way to meet, not a guarantee of romantic results.
Research helps explain the appeal: Pew Research Center found that 54% of women who had used online dating in the previous year sometimes felt overwhelmed by messages, while 64% of men sometimes felt insecure about receiving too few. Separately, a study across seven samples found that 68% of romantic relationships began as friendships.
No. Cashmere is a private, application-only singles club built around real-life events and a familiar social circle. The member app supports the club experience; it isn't a place to endlessly swipe through strangers.
Cashmere is an application-only singles community for adults 18 and older who are genuinely open to meeting people, dating and building real connections. Membership brings together the Cashmere app, a private member community and a calendar of in-person experiences.
No. Membership is intentionally limited and admission is selective. Submitting an application places you into consideration for the Cashmere community; it does not guarantee admission.
Applications are submitted through the Cashmere app. If your application is selected to move forward, Cashmere will invite you to complete identity verification. After verification is successfully completed, you will be invited to choose and activate your membership plan.
Cashmere does not publish or promise an application timeline. If your application is selected to move forward, we will contact you with the next step.
No. There is no membership payment when you submit your application. Membership plan selection and payment take place only after you have been selected to move forward and successfully completed identity verification.
Identity verification helps protect the integrity of the community and gives members greater confidence that the people they meet through Cashmere are connected to verified identities. Verification is required before an accepted applicant can activate membership.
The introduction video is a required part of the Cashmere application and is reviewed as part of the admissions process. Photos and written answers only communicate so much; video helps Cashmere get a better sense of how you present yourself in real life—how you speak, communicate, carry yourself and express your personality. If you become a member, your introduction video also becomes part of your Cashmere profile so other members can experience more of who you are beyond still photographs and written answers.
Yes. Privacy matters. Members may hide their dating-profile visibility while keeping their membership active. That can be useful for members who prefer to participate primarily through in-person events or who simply want greater discretion.
Starting a relationship does not automatically require you to leave Cashmere. Cashmere is a singles community, and applicants should join with a genuine intent to meet and date people, but members may manage their profile visibility as appropriate. If you want to step away while exploring a new relationship, this is a great time to use included Pause & Resume time, if your plan provides it, or Membership Hold at $14.99/month. As long as you Pause or Hold rather than cancel, your membership and protected rate remain preserved and you can resume without reapplying if circumstances change.
Cashmere plans a varied calendar of social experiences throughout each month, from cocktails, dining and activities to larger Signature Events. The exact calendar will evolve with the chapter, venues and member interests, and confirmed events will be published for members as they are scheduled.
Membership gives you access to Cashmere's private event calendar, but not every event is included in the membership price. Some member events are complimentary, while Signature Events and other special experiences may be separately ticketed. Each event listing will make any additional cost clear before you RSVP or purchase.
Cashmere events are designed for members. Unless a specific event is expressly announced otherwise, you must be an active Cashmere member to attend.
No. Cashmere events are members-only unless a specific event expressly states otherwise. If attending with a friend is important to you, we encourage you to apply together and link your applications. Cashmere may consider both applicants together when each meets the membership criteria.
No. Cashmere membership is open to adults 18 and older. Individual events will be clearly designated as 18+ or 21+ based on the venue and experience, so members ages 18–20 will still have access to events designed for their age group.
Plans change. If you think you may not make it, please remove your RSVP as soon as possible so Cashmere can plan accurately and, where applicable, make the space available to another member. If we notice a missed RSVP, the first reminder is simply a courteous note about helping us plan for the people attending. Repeated missed RSVPs may lead to additional reminders about event etiquette.
Cashmere may publicly share event themes, dates and selected details, but exact private event locations are reserved for eligible members who have RSVP'd or purchased a ticket.
No. Cashmere Destinations and Cashmere Cruises are optional members-only travel experiences booked separately through Cashmere's designated travel booking partner. Travel costs are not included in membership dues.
The Cashmere Member Collection is an evolving collection of gifts created for eligible active members. Cashmere guarantees a minimum of four gifted pieces each year and expects the collection to typically include 4–6 pieces annually. The collection may include numbered Cashmere Signature Collection designs as well as limited Signature Event Editions inspired by particular events.
Member Collection gifts are distributed at Signature Events and other specifically designated Cashmere events. Cashmere will communicate collection opportunities to members. Event Editions are tied to their applicable event or release and are not retroactive for members who join afterward.
Every eligible member is entitled to a Cashmere Signature Collection piece. If the designated piece is unavailable, Cashmere may offer another eligible piece of comparable value from available options instead.
Every collection has a beginning. No. 001 identifies the first design in the numbered Cashmere Signature Collection—it is the design's place in the collection, not an individual serial number. Future Signature Collection designs may continue as No. 002, No. 003 and beyond.
Select Signature Events may introduce a special Member Collection piece inspired by the evening itself. These Event Editions are separate from the permanent numbered Cashmere Signature Collection and may or may not carry Cashmere branding. If remaining inventory is available after an event, Cashmere may later offer the piece for purchase through the Cashmere Gift Store, with pickup at a designated event.
Active membership provides access to the Cashmere member community and app, the private event calendar, eligible complimentary member experiences, member-only access to separately ticketed experiences, and eligibility for the Cashmere Member Collection. Active members receive 4–6 gifted Collection pieces throughout the year, with a guaranteed minimum of four. Your specific plan may also include complimentary Pause & Resume privileges and additional plan benefits.
Pause & Resume is a complimentary break benefit included with qualifying longer-term memberships: Six-Month memberships include up to three months and Annual memberships include up to 12 months. Membership Hold is the paid $14.99/month option available when complimentary Pause & Resume is not included or has been exhausted. Both preserve your membership place and protected member pricing while you are away.
No. Pause & Resume and Membership Hold preserve your membership place and protected member pricing, but active-member access is suspended while you are away. During a Pause or Hold you cannot access member profiles, member messaging, the private member event calendar, member-only events, Member Collection releases or other active-member benefits. Gifts released while your membership is inactive are not held or reserved for later. When you resume active membership, normal member access and eligibility for future benefits return.
Your established member price remains protected while you maintain continuous membership, including time preserved through an eligible Pause & Resume period or Membership Hold. If you cancel and later return, your former pricing is not preserved and then-current membership pricing applies.
Yes. Membership automatically renews on the same plan term at your protected member price unless you change your renewal plan or cancel before renewal. Once a renewal has processed, that membership term is committed.
Yes. You may select a different membership term for your next renewal before the current term renews. Once renewal has processed, the renewed term remains in effect.
Cancellation ends your Cashmere membership. If you want to return later, you must submit a new application and complete the full admissions process again. Readmission is not guaranteed. If accepted again, a $99 returning-member fee applies and you return at the membership pricing available at that time. If you simply need time away, Pause & Resume or Membership Hold is how you preserve your place rather than leaving Cashmere.
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